does anyone's hme actually autoneg with a switch properly?  it doesnt
   work with foundry or hp procurve.  perhaps that is contributing.
   ifconfig doesnt appear to indicate which duplex it is running
   
           media: Ethernet autoselect (100baseTX)
   
   nor does there appear to be a knob to specify the duplex.


i've also been unable to make autoselect negotiage full duplex, but
there *is* a knob for it:

	media 100baseTX mediaopt full-duplex

add that to your ifconfig.hme0.  you may also be interested in the
output of ifconfig -m.