> I had the same problem when i activated 
> 
> options        ACPI_ACTIVATE_DEV
> 
> on the kernel, try to desactivate this option and the cdrom should work,
> i don't know yet how to make wireless + cdrom working, because if you desactivate this option wireless card only work on boot time, after some time, it stop to respond, no off no on...

Yup, this was precisely the problem; disabling that and adding
PCI_{ADDR,BUS,INTR}_FIXUP makes everything work properly for me.